01 November 2012

dress code

The national manager of MM is just back from an overseas holiday. She’s been ringing me for days but I’ve been busy and I choose not to return her call on an NWD, a non-working day. So she sends me a personal email headed Dress code for Friday.

It’s the big MM recognition event and all us state project officers are bound for Canberra to meet the Minister for Education, Pete Garrett, Midnight Oils front man, now an honourable member.

After the pleasantries the boss’s email says: I just wanted to let you know that the event on Friday is a fairly formal occasion and as such coat and tie would be good. I only mention this as I understand that you really do prefer casual dress and I certainly understand that. I thought it was best to mention this prior to Friday. Thanks and take care. Will speak soon.

I email back that I own neither tie nor coat, but will consider ironing creases in my shorts and wearing a top hat. I think her sense of humour can cope with that.

Nonetheless, clothing raises questions about my contrariness. My good woman gives me a gentle grilling on the subject. I offer five reasons why a tie is simply inappropriate for anyone: the medical reason, the political, the philosophical, the sexism, and the personal. She gets my drift, but offers to help me find a pair of long pants that fit me.

My suspicion is that Minister Garrett is probably more comfortable in shorts and thongs than a starched collar and might well be more comfortable having a yarn with me about his appearance on Kitchen cabinet than the empty prattle he’ll have to conduct with earnest school leaders in suits.

Putting all that to one side: I’ve been warned. Nicely. I’m on notice to improve my wardrobe. I think about it sometimes but nothing comes to mind. Shoes don’t fit my triple-E width feet. Socks make me hot and sweaty. Ditto long pants. My jumpers were all knitted by my mother three decades ago.

I’ll travel in shorts and tee-shirt, slip into long duds in the parliamentary dunny just before the event proper, hope I can last the distance till it’s safe to let it all hang out again.

Clothes, eh. What a waste of time, energy and cupboard space.

Rock on. 

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