04 February 2012

hindsight

Hindsight from the height of 60 years gets things in perspective: the things I should have done.

I should have more self-confidence. I am not a dud human and never was. As a child I suffer no dreadful put-downs by family or friends. But I get no encouragement either. No one fosters my childhood passions. As a child I am good at those things I want to be good at. I’m not fussed by the things I have no talent for, like music, drawing, or anything mechanical.

But a chronic lack of confidence is present from the get-go. For nine years I blunder blind as a mole to the bus stop and stare blankly in a radius of about one metre on buses bulging with eligible girls. I am incapable of uttering one syllable to any of the giggling cuties wedged against me on the 623 from Chadstone to Elsternwick. Do they laugh at me?

I have the talent to play Australian Rules at the highest level but myopia and failed self-belief let me down.

I should have become a linguist. For one year and one year only—1963—my school runs a subject, in what was then form 1, called Comparative Language. We are introduced to language at its roots and its great traditions—Celtic, Germanic and Romance—and my thirst for words knows no bounds. I study French for two years, Latin for one and German for five.

Philology, the love of words, and that branch of linguistics concerned with the origin and evolution of the meanings of words might have been my forte. Linguistics, the arcane pursuit of the origins, evolution and structure of languages fascinates me still.  
Language and languages are not valued when I begin university in 1971 and I see no career or future in them. If I could return to university tomorrow, this is what I would study. I would speak Serbian, Portuguese, Italian and Russian.

Hindsight.

The things I should not have done are another story.

Rock on.   

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